True signs of a me being a realist have long been obvious. My family always considered me a unsocial pessimist while my friends always thought me to be a chattering optimist. Since I am a person of extremes it is only natural that such opposite predicaments of my personality would be the definitive of the nature of my company.
In truth I am in the least an optimist and with the greatest of respect to the pessimists of the world, I am by no means a pessimist. My opto-misitc personality is in fact a realistic approach that has merely incorporated much optimism into the, "everything is possible" vocabulary of my true self. I don't see situations as impossible that I set myself to make possible. That would be opto-misitc. Instead I find that impossibility's don't really exist.
It isn't the nature of things to have possibility's for then it must have impossibility's. the world is full of opportunity's, many just lying on the floor waiting for us all to pick up and make it our own. There are no obstacles in the world of realism, there is just distractions, some are physical distractions, and mental distractions, or temporary pessimistic or realistic distractions.
When we find ourselves hoping for things to become better, we are hurting the reality of what is meant to happen, because nothing can be better, since nothing really is bad. This might sound naive and quite delusional, but as a true realist I assure you that our true reality is only a state of mind and not in any way a complete physical experience. We create our own experience, and thus if we permit the negative impulses to overtake the reality in our minds, our physical reality will then seem to be in such negative form. If we were to permit hope or optimism to overtake our mind, then we again need to find the balance between the negative and the positive in order to permit there to be hope. Hope in itself isn't tied down to any, negativity, or positivity, it is emotion triggered by the thought of not believing in the reality or realms of a situation.
Everything in life really is a step up and never a step down. Sometimes we take one, tow, or three steps down, but only in order to go back up again. Such moments are best described as "rewind/unwind" go moments. The obstacles in our path were placed there for us to walk around them, climb over them, sit on them, look at them, but never to move them. Only a pessimist or a optimist would find reason to move these obstacles, only to find another right behind it. It would be to exhausting to have to move all those obstacles, of which may i remind you are most likely mental imaginary obstacles, and none of which must ever be moved or erased from our minds.
Smile, Dance, Sing, and Breath the true essence of a realist. :-)
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